Over the weekend while sitting in the pool the "women" were discussing pregnancy and I was telling them that I had just read an article about what to do if you ask someone who IS NOT pregnant - when they are due. Can you image the utter horror you would feel not to mention the embarrassment? If you ever find yourself in such a situation - simply say to the woman who you have totally and completely destroyed - oh - I'm so sorry, you just have that glow about you! Now - experts say to never-ever ask a woman when she is due to avoid such a horrid situation but sometimes your mouth is faster than your brain. Anyway - my mom called me today to tell me that she has asked a sales associate at Macy's when she was due and the lady said - I am not pregnant. Kill me now! However I guess she was very gracious and told my mom that when she wore the specific shirt that she had on - people frequently ask her when she is due! I would knock someone out if it were me - but whatever! Now - I am clearly having a baby so if would be acceptable to ask me when I am due - but if it is at all questionable - just keep a lid on it!
On Friday on the way back from Ann Arbor - Erica and I had to make a quick stop and a lady asked me when I was due and I told her and she said ..and I quote "My daughter is due September 6th and you are SO much bigger than she is." I wanted to smack the you know what out of her. Not what I want to here. I want to be as small as her daughter - not made to feel like a whale! So - those types of comments are no-no's too! I addressed this when I was pregnant with Olivia - just because a woman is pregnant does not give anyone the right to freely talk about her body. It is simply not allowed!




